I spent the last eight posts going through the story of the birth of our daughter for a reason. I wanted everyone who reads this blog to know exactly where we (my wife and I) were coming from with our anticipation (arguably trepidation) of our second.

Since that experience, my wife has seen her obstetrician several times, and discussed subsequent births. Although there was a possibility that she could have a successful vaginal birth after cesarean (VBAC), our concern was that it wasn’t necessarily the R.O.P. that was the cause of all our problems last time. We believe that there is a good chance that my wife’s pelvis may have been the issue that necessitated the c-section.

So, after much internal discussion (and admittedly some tears), we have decided? to have a scheduled c-section for baby number two. It wasn’t an easy decision, but we think it will be the best thing for us.

This decision means we will have a very different experience than last time. There will (likely) be no discussion of whether she’s feeling constipated or contractions. There will be no water breaking in the middle of the night. We will be able to prepare ourselves as well as our daughter for the baby’s arrival, and I think that will work out well for all of us in the end.

What are your feelings about VBAC, or just scheduled c-sections in general? How do you feel about the (supposed) recent rise in scheduled c-sections?