Banish the Guilt, You Are A Good Mother!

Posted on January 25th, 2008

What is it about motherhood that gives some of us a superiority complex? Is it the latest clique some people use to put down others so they feel better? Well, this isn’t high school and you don’t have to subject yourself to it. The truth is we all have some doubts about what we are doing as mothers. ALL OF US. And if you’re shaking your head no right now, you’re the type of ‘clique mom’ I’m talking about.

 

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