Although our society has become more open-minded to lesbians, gays, bisexuals, and transgenders (LGBTs), the social stigma still remains and many adolescents are rejected even by their own family based on their sexual orientation. In a recent report published in the journal pediatrics, researchers at the San Francisco State University found a clear association between rejection of LGBT adolescents by their families and negative health outcomes. The health problems include depression, suicidal tendencies, use of illegal drugs, and risky sexual behavior.

In some cultures, sexual orientation that doesn’t confirm with the norm is not acceptable. In others, such “behavior” is even illegal, dealt with by capital punishment.

In the US and many developed countries, however, LGBTs are gaining acceptance. There are support groups all over to provide counseling to LGBT youths. But what about the family? Based on the study results, family behavior still plays a big role and rejection, although sometimes, well-meant actually does a lot of damage. The San Francisco State University set up the Family Acceptance Project which conducts research on the topic and aims to develop a new model of helping families increase supportive behaviors for LGBT adolescents. In addressing the family behavioral problems, the negative health outcomes can hopefully be prevented.

I have two small sons and I must admit that like most mothers, I picture my sons’ future as becoming husbands and fathers according to the social norm. How would I feel if they turn out to be gay? Honestly, I don’t know. But I will never reject them, that’s for sure. They are my sons, no matter what.