Comments on: Mad at Dad: Moms are Furious With Their Baby’s Fathers http://blogs.babiesonline.com/news/mad-at-dad-moms-are-furious-with-their-babys-fathers/ News & Information about parenting, pregnancy, and Babies Online's services Thu, 19 Nov 2009 19:40:33 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.6 hourly 1 By: momof3 http://blogs.babiesonline.com/news/mad-at-dad-moms-are-furious-with-their-babys-fathers/comment-page-1/#comment-13359 momof3 Sat, 14 Feb 2009 02:24:00 +0000 http://blogs.babiesonline.com/?p=9313#comment-13359 This survey says exactly what I am feeling right now. I feel angry at my husband so often lately. The lack of sleep due to my kids poor sleeping habits these days is not helping. My biggest complaint about his behavior after becoming parents is that he seems to just do what he wants to do when he wants to do it without feeling like he has to discuss it with me first and make sure it fits into my day. But, I, on the other hand, feel I have to schedule everything I do around the kids naps so he rarely has 2 awake kids to watch. I also feel like I have to ask him if it works with his schedule when I want to do things. Why do I feel this way? Do all moms feel this way? My husband is helpful and is good with the kids. Why do I feel resentment then? This survey says exactly what I am feeling right now. I feel angry at my husband so often lately. The lack of sleep due to my kids poor sleeping habits these days is not helping. My biggest complaint about his behavior after becoming parents is that he seems to just do what he wants to do when he wants to do it without feeling like he has to discuss it with me first and make sure it fits into my day. But, I, on the other hand, feel I have to schedule everything I do around the kids naps so he rarely has 2 awake kids to watch. I also feel like I have to ask him if it works with his schedule when I want to do things. Why do I feel this way? Do all moms feel this way? My husband is helpful and is good with the kids. Why do I feel resentment then?

]]> By: Joe http://blogs.babiesonline.com/news/mad-at-dad-moms-are-furious-with-their-babys-fathers/comment-page-1/#comment-13340 Joe Fri, 13 Feb 2009 08:44:34 +0000 http://blogs.babiesonline.com/?p=9313#comment-13340 Isn't it fair to say that this can go both ways? I'm a little taken back that this post only talks about the man being a problem. Women can be just as problematic with these same issues. I guess I should be used to man bashing by now but I refuse to accept it. In parenting the mother is not always perfect regardless of what this post may lead you to believe. There are things that make me upset with my wife when it comes to parenting but we talk about it and compromise. Not all men are dead beat dads... Isn’t it fair to say that this can go both ways? I’m a little taken back that this post only talks about the man being a problem. Women can be just as problematic with these same issues.

I guess I should be used to man bashing by now but I refuse to accept it.

In parenting the mother is not always perfect regardless of what this post may lead you to believe.

There are things that make me upset with my wife when it comes to parenting but we talk about it and compromise.

Not all men are dead beat dads…

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