The Tranquility of No Mobility
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So my little boy, Gus, is an over-achiever. Okay - I just like to say that because he’s 95% in height and 93% in weight. But hey, that’s well above average right? In practicality, he’s a big, happy, vocal, very tactile guy.
But at 9 months, he hasn’t really shown any indication that he’s interested in crawling. Frankly, we haven’t really encouraged it either. He rolls, rotates, and pushes up - but he seems to know that if he stares at a toy long enough and uses “The Force”, it’ll come to him. Or at least we’ll hand it to him.
My wife has a Master’s degree in Early Childhood Education and knows all about milestones and development in infants. So if she’s not concerned, I’m not concerned.
We have several friends with kids roughly the same age as Gus and most of their kids are crawling. We’ve seen the work it takes to chase them around and thus, we haven’t put the pressure on Gus to get his limbs moving. Why push the kid?
And then came tonight. I watched him, sitting up, playing innocently with a rubber ducky - carrying on some kind of conversation that only an infant and rubber ducky would understand when he tossed the ducky a country mile (okay, maybe it was only four feet, but I have great Sandy Koufax hopes for him) and fixate on the duck in a way I’d not observed before.
He was going to get that duck, come hell or high water.
Gus leaned forward onto his hands. His hands gripped the floor with great determination and he lurched forward with his torso. He looked almost as surprised as I did when his chubby little legs followed - first one knee, then the next. In seconds, he relocated his duck and looked at me with great satisfaction only to discover my jaw had dropped. He crawled.
And so here we go - the comfort of what my wife called the “flower pot” stage, where you can plop him down with a toy and confidently know he’s really not going anywhere, is over. My boy is crawling.
And even though I know my free time will be consumed with chasing him down, I couldn’t be more proud of him. The grin has yet to leave my mug. I even called my parents to tell them.
My boy is mobile.
If any of you have crawling stories, I would love to see them and share them with our friends - your comments are appreciated!
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Shannon says...
hehe, when my daughter was yet immobile my mother warned me that my life would never be the same once she started crawling. Boy was she ever right!
Andy Anderson says...
I really enjoyed the story! When a child begins to crawl, you are absolutely amazed, and then you realize that your simple non-crawling days are over. It is full speed ahead! : )
Andy
Chuck says...
I remember a little twerp that also didn’t crawl when he should have. What he did was swim. He certainly accomplished the same thing as crawling, as I recall. Crawling isn’t all it is cracked up to be.
Kathryne Rouse says...
Too cute!
My husband and I have a 9-month old as well. She started crawling and hasn’t looked back. Sometimes I wish she would have stayed in the “flower pot” stage longer. It’s so peaceful knowing they are safe in one spot. Now we’re trying to baby-proof the house and it seems like we’re behind the curve almost daily.
Good luck to all the parents out there with crawling youngsters! This is one of the cutest stages of baby-hood!
Kelli says...
Wow! What a cute baby! I remember vividly when both my boys’ started crawling. With the first one, I couldn’t wait for it to happen, but with the 2nd I wanted him to hold off as long as possible, because I knew how everything changed!
Once they’re crawling, it’s walking, then running…and it always seems to be AWAY from their parents.
Yes, things will get busier now, but they will also just continue to be more and more rewarding. You’ll be tossing a baseball back and forth between the two of you before you know it!
Enjoy every moment! It goes SO fast!